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Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit. One of the things that held me back from pursuing my dreams for many years was fear of failure … and the lack of self-confidence that I needed to overcome that fear. The key question: how do you overcome that fear? By working on your self-confidence and self-esteem.

I still have those fears, undoubtedly. But now I know that I can beat them, that I can break through that wall of fear and come out on the other side. This post was inspired by reader Nick from Finland, who asked for an article about self-worth and self-confidence:. Many of the things you propose make people feel better about themselves and actually help building self-confidence.

However, I would be interested on reading your input in general on this topic. Truer words have never been spoken. As an aside, I know that some people make a strong distinction between self-esteem and self-confidence. In the end, both amount Get confidence back the same thing, and in the end, the actions I mention below give a boost to both self-esteem and self-confidence. Taking control of your self-confidence If you are low in self-confidence, is it possible to do things that will change that? Is your self-confidence in your control? While it may not seem so, if you are low in self-confidence, I strongly believe that you can do things to increase your self-confidence.

It is not genetic, and you do not have to be reliant on others to increase your self-confidence. And if you believe that you are not very competent, not very smart, not very attractive, etc. You can become someone worthy of respect, and someone who can pursue what he wants despite the naysaying of others.

You can do Get confidence back by taking control of your life, and taking control of your self-confidence. By taking concrete actions that improve your competence, your self-image, you can increase that self-confidence, without the help of anyone else. Below, I outline 25 things that will help you do that. None of them is revolutionary, none of them will do it all by themselves. If they work, try others. Get confidence back yourself.

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There have been days when I turned my mood around completely with this one little thing. Dress nicely. Photoshop your self-image. Our self-image means so much to us, more than we often realize. We have a mental picture of ourselves, and it determines how confident we are in ourselves. You can change it.

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Use your Get confidence back Photoshopping skills, and work on your self-image. Figure out why you see yourself that way, and find a way to fix it. Think positive. One of the things I learned when I started running, about two years ago, what how to replace negative thoughts see next item with positive ones. How I can actually change my thoughts, and by doing so make great things happened. With this tiny little skill, I was able to train for and run a marathon within a year.

It sounds so trite, so Norman Vincent Pealebut my goodness this works. Kill negative thoughts. I want to stop and go watch TV. When I caught one, I would stomp on it mentally of course and squash it. Kill it dead. Then replace it with a positive one. Only one mile left! Get to know yourself.

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When going into battle, the wisest general learns to know his enemy very, very well. Get to know yourself well. Start listening to your thoughts. Start writing a journal about yourself, and about the thoughts you have about yourself, and analyzing why you have such negative thoughts. And then think about the good things about yourself, the things you can do well, the things you like. Act positive. More than just thinking positive, you have to put it into action.

Action, actually, is the key to developing self-confidence. You are what you do, and so if you change what you do, Get confidence back change what you are. Talk to people in a positive way, put energy into your actions.

Be kind and generous. Oh, so corny. If this is too corny for you, move on. But for the rest of you, know that being kind to others, and generous with yourself and your time and what you have, is a tremendous way to improve your self-image. You act in accordance with the Golden Ruleand you start to feel good about yourself, and to think that you are a good person.

It does wonders for your self-confidence, believe me. One important key to success is self-confidence. A key to self-confidence is preparation. Get prepared. Beat that feeling by preparing yourself as much as possible. Now think of life as your exam, and prepare yourself. Know your principles and live them. What are the principles upon which your life is built? For myself, I Get confidence back to live the Golden Rule and fail often. This is my key principle, and I try to live my life in accordance with it.

Speak slowly. Such a simple thing, but it can have a big difference in how others perceive you.

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A person in authority, with authority, speaks slowly. It shows confidence. It will make you feel more confident. Stand tall. I have horrible posture, so it will sound hypocritical for me to give this advice, but I know it works because I try it often. When I remind myself to stand tall and straight, I feel better about myself.

I imagine that a rope is pulling the top of my head toward the sky, and the rest of my body straightens accordingly. As an aside, people who stand tall and confident are more attractive. Increase competence. How do you feel more competent? By becoming Get confidence back competent. And how do you do that? By studying and practicing. Just do small bits at a time.

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Just begin to write more. Journal, blog, write short stories, do some freelance writing. Set aside 30 minutes a day to write for exampleand the practice will increase your competence. Set a small goal and achieve it. People often make the mistake of shooting for the moon, and Get confidence back when they fail, they get discouraged.

Instead, shoot for something much more achievable. Set a goal you know you can achieve, and then achieve it. Now set another small goal and achieve that. Change a small habit. Not a big one, like quitting smoking. Just a small one, like writing things down. Or waking up 10 minutes earlier. Or drinking a glass of water when you wake up. Something small that you know you can do. Do it for a month. Focus on solutions. If you are a complainer, or focus on problems, change your focus Get confidence back. Focusing on solutions instead of problems is one of the best things you can do for your confidence and your career.

Another trite one. But it works. I feel instantly better when I smile, and it helps me to be kinder to others as well. A little tiny thing that can have a chain reaction. Not a bad investment of your time and energy. Be grateful. But I put it here because while being grateful for what you have in life, for what others have given you, is a very humbling activity … it can also be a very positive and rewarding activity that will improve your self-image. Gosh, I seem to put this one on almost Get confidence back list.

But if I left it off this list I would be doing you a disservice. Exercise has been one of my most empowering activities in the last couple years, and it has made me feel so much better about myself. Start the habit. Empower yourself with knowledge. Empowering yourself, in general, is one of the best strategies for building self-confidence. You can do that in many ways, but one of the surest ways to empower yourself is through knowledge.

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